Sample printable kit
Print this, run the drill once, and place the cards where people will see them.
Choose a phrase that is private, memorable, and not obvious from social media.
Choose two safe people to call back from saved contacts before money moves.
Have someone pretend to call with an emergency. Practice asking for the phrase and calling back.
If someone asks for money, gift cards, wire transfer, crypto, bail, hospital fees, or secrecy: stop.
Ask for the family phrase. Then hang up and call back from your own contacts.
Safe callback: __________________________
Private phrase: __________________________
Second callback: _________________________
No phrase. No callback. No money.
Family rule: No emergency payment until two safe contacts verify it.
"I hear you. I am going to hang up and call you back from my contacts. If this is real, you know our family phrase."
We are setting a Family Voice Lock today. If anyone calls with an emergency asking for money, we ask for our family phrase, hang up, and call back from saved contacts. No exceptions.
Family Voice Lock
Money emergency? Ask the phrase. Hang up. Call back from contacts. No money until verified.